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The Invisible School

The school that I am revealing is invisible for the eyes that are looking for solid boundaries and rigid dogmas.

 It's invisible for the people that needs rules to abide to. It's invisible to the people that want to consume spirituality, like we consume our environment.

It will reveal itself to the seeker that is unraveling from the heart, longing for erotic innocence

and spiritual freedom. It’s a school that calls for personal maturity, self responsibility

and a great deal of commitment.

The Tantra School of Fascinating Wonderment expresses from the living wisdom of the tantrik Dakinis. These wisdom teachings understand that spiritual realisation is an act of absolute devotion towards the suchness of our unique life experience here on Planet Earth. This school is invisible because it's birthed from the deep feminine wisdom that refuses structure to express. Masculine embodiment worship the intellect, the linear, the creation of concepts and the literature on spiritual teachings. The Dakinis lived and expressed the teachings through their embodiment.

Their wisdom lives in the destruction of concepts and the dissolution of thoughts. They didn’t write books, they passionately made love to the ever changing moment : the erotic heart of Shiva. 


To study in this school is to practice devotion. The devoted heart is an open heart. Only when the heart is open truth can enter, before that readiness any attempt is a struggle. 

Life gives us plenty opportunities to break our heart open, use them wisely. When your armouring is being trampled with and tenderised enough by the heartbreaks of your life, you are finally ready for the true teaching of Love. The essence of Reality. Only then you will realise that your own heart is the heart of the Cosmos, your body is the body of Reality, and your Sexuality is the celebration of your human form. 


The teachings of this school are deeply drenched in the tantrik current of `Kashmir Shivaism, the teachings of Abinavagupta, the songs of Lalla (Lal Ded), the transmission of my teacher Daniel Odier -and his master Lalita Devi, and the ecstatic erotic current originally embodied by the DevaDasi (temple dancers - servants of God) that used the body as a portal for expanded states of awareness.

The body that merges with the undifferentiated is the sacred map towards the Mystery.

Our divinity is intrinsic in our humanity. The infinite into the finite .

The subtle into the gross. The extraordinary into the ordinary. The ecstatic into the mundane.

The sacred into the profane. 


In this School we are devoting our attention towards 4 primarily practices. Every practice is an act of worship to the experience itself. There is no striving. No measurements. Enlightenment is never a goal. We culture deep relaxation of the body-mind beyond spiritual fantasies and religious romances. 


When your practice becomes empty of spiritual concepts and clever ideas you can finally embrace this

ever-present moment with the erotic awareness that is gushing forth through you. 

 As you. Because of you. In spite of you. Meditating you. Liberating you. Forever birthed from your heart,

passionately longing to just be YOU .


When you learn to look into the invisible you will recognise this school that I am humbling revealing.

It has always been here. There’s nowhere else to be.

It's a love affair with Truth.

The Invisible School
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The Practices


A Tantric Revelation that Flows into movements.
Rooted in the ancient wisdom of the Vedas and the healing science of Ayurveda, this āsanas practice focuses on intrinsic relaxation of the physical body and the conscious mind. This sequence will meditate you into the Deepest Essence of your Being, where True Self reveals. From this space of infinite stillness, natural wisdom and authentic expression will arise.
(This practice is accessible to all ages and levels of fitness)


a Traditional Tantric Practice from the Kaula Tradition of Kashmir
Perhaps the oldest form of yoga known to us,
Tandava is a very slow, mystical dance that leads to the perception of the Cosmic Body and Attunement to our Infinite Nature . Although very simple to perform , it expresses the complexity of our living existence.
It’s the dance of true Spontaneity and loving Acceptance of ALL that we are.


The Sacred Art of Kashmiri massage – is a Traditional Meditation practice from the Spanda school of Shiva Tantra that uses touch work as a tool to understand the SELF as Empty Space and Absolute Bliss. This is an expanded progression of the practice of Tandava, and has the ability to profoundly nourish our nervous systems, to restore our innate sense of belonging, to reset our connection to life at large and to finally receive our body as an expression of Divine Celebration. Our birthright.


BlissDance is the ART of dancing the Sacred and Sensual as a movement of AWAKENING.

BlissDance is for those yearning for Presence, Freedom and Truth. It is for the brave spiritual warriors who are not scared to dance their crazy wisdom and the depth of their vulnerability.

It is the dance of True Intimacy with Self.


 An exploration of the refined, subtle movements of Sexual Energy in the body.
These Sensual Meditations will naturally flow out of the āsanas of stillness
and will reveal new pathways for sexual energy to express beyond the gross body. From this place we can start nurturing a Sensual Relationship with All that surrounds us, and expand our perception of Sexuality and Reality.  



Tantra teaches that there is only You. And your perception of Reality.

Nothing else truly Exists.
With this understanding Self-Loving becomes the the greatest act of

Worship to the Grace of Existence.
Love is nothing else than Life Force expressing herself through you, AS YOU.

Possibly the only real purpose for being alive.

Team Wonder

Team Wonder


VALENTINA LEO (a.k.a. MrsLove)

Mother of the School  &  Devoted Student 

 a Mystic, a Lover & a Fool


Spiritual maverick, teacher of Erotic Wisdom and an Explorer of the Tantric Realms for over 20 years. Valentina is a Dakini ~ holder of the freedom lineage from the Tantric school of Fascinating Wonderment (Vismayo) that spontaneously birth female teachers of the pathless Path.


She is madly in love with the Mystery & the traditional tantric revelations of Kashmir Shivaism.

She is uncensored and untamed. Her teachings are intuitive and direct.

Void of linear evolution, they only require a deep desire to become truly intimate with Reality.


It's the mystic path of endless Devotion to the Unknown.

Working with her will require everything of you.

She teaches the Yoga of Presence, Unbounded Freedom and Mystical Union

with the vast Emptiness of pure Space.

More about MrsLove

Olivia Krouwkam
Senior Student & Teacher 

"I call myself the Tantrik Mediator as I facilitate resolve between parts of people that are in conflict with their True nature.

I used to be a divorce attorney by trade and turned conflict resolution, communication and relating into my spiritual practice. Tantra, Yoga and Non Violent Communication are the tools that I use to work with the Heart. I am devoted to living a life that is aligned with the Truth of my Heart and the Heart of Reality and I invite others to join me in this dance."

Olivia offers Kama Yoga both in-person and online and also offers 

Yoga of Relationships & Intimacy and Holistic Mediation & Uncoupling.

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